- Strong emotional bond: In the relationship you feel that you are wanted, loved and safe. You feel connected with your spouse and at the same time you feel free to be yourself: Freedom in Connectivity!
- Firm commitment: The feeling ‘we belong together’ is strong and shapes your daily life. The relationship has your top priority. Respect for, counting on and trusting each other feels obvious and totally safe.
Vibrant intimacy: You feel attracted erotically to each other. You touch each other on a daily basis in a warm and friendly manner.
Life-long learning: You both are very aware that you as a person and you as a couple are in constant development. You act on this belief and give time, space, energy and attention to your personal development and to the wellbeing of your relationship. Happiness actually comes with the feeling of progress, moving forward, enriching yourself and each other. That also means that you both set high standards for the quality of your relationship and your life. You are very dedicated to fulfill your potential as a couple.
Having a great time: Together you are focusing on enjoying your life. You strengthen your bond by giving each other positive attention. You take time for each other. You both look for attractive activities to do together.
Effective repair in times of troubles or emotional distance: You are both masters of conflic resolution. You know how to find each other again after moments of misunderstanding, disagreement or distance.
Clear communication and open emotional expression: You are able to communicate your thoughts, feelings and needs in a clear and understandable way. You listen actively and empathetically to each other. You can show your soft feelings such as sadness or love. You both know how to show your vulnerability.
Solid teamwork: You experience each other as equal and validate each other’s contribution to the relationship. You are truely a team: at home and at work. You both do your fair share. Your spouse is a higly valued, important and trusted advisor. You always take crucial decisions together.
Respect for individuality and differences: You enjoy being together and at the same time very much value the fact that you are two individuals with your own background, different needs and wishes. You compliment and need each other and at the same time you stand very solidly on your own feet. You can fully enjoy the differences of character and also the differences that come with your gender. You respect these differences and benefit both from them optimally.
Priority for ambitions and life dreams: You both back each others ambitions and dreams totally. You look for opportunities to make them happen with and for each other.
Significant success and contribution to the world: Together you generate a positive power that transcends your individual strength. You become even more successful and make the world a better and more loving place.
Solid parenthood: As parents you know that a good and solid relationship is the most important cornerstone of good parenthood. Especially in parenting you are again a solid team as a Power Couple.
So…you are very likely to also have this Power Couple in you! It gives you this superb feeling of love and passion, a tremendous amount of energy and the strength to transcend to an even higher level of life fullfilment alone and together! Most relationships actually start with the belief and the experience of being a Power Couple. Many couples focus on staying in touch with it during the up’s and down’s of life. Some of the Power Couple aspects mentioned below nevertheless sometimes get lost or neglected. That’s Life! It is always a good time to unleash that Power Couple in you (again)! The fact that you read this right now might indicate the chance to work on that together.